So having declared a new direction for Mum’s the Boss, I need to simplify my own life and practice what I am going to preach. As the summer holidays get under way (finally) in the UK, I am in the process of putting together my annual summer holiday project. My task is to simplify my life in as many different ways as I can, so when the morning routines start again in September, I will still have time and space for the self care habits that bring me joy
Simplifying your life should be… well, simple, right? Well, let’s make it that way. Even if you chip away at one or two little projects for 15 minutes a day, you can make a huge improvement in the overall quality of your life!
If you are simplifying too, I’m sure that you will come up with your own ideas once you get the hang of it, but until then, here are a few areas that I intend to dive into this summer
Clean off your desk
Before you leave work for the day, take 15 minutes to clean off your desk, placing everything where it belongs. Refile folders, reshelve books, take out your trash, refill your stapler, clean the crumbs out of your keyboard, organize your papers that you will need for tomorrow in a neat stack and put all your pens and pencils in the holder or drawer. You will be totally amazed at how you feel when you walk in the next day—peaceful and ready to work!
Whittle down your to-do list
If you are one of those people who has a daily to-do list as long as their arm (and who isn’t?) challenge yourself to do less, but accomplish more overall. Having an impossible list of things to do only causes stress which fractures our attention. Grab a small sticky note and write your Most Important Things (MIT’s) for the day down. Once you have completed those, you can go to your running list of to-do items that are in a separate area such as a whiteboard (that isn’t in front of you), a simple document or a productivity app. But if you only get your MIT’s done that day, you’ll be happy, because they will have been the vital tasks.
Schedule your day
Before you leave the office for the day (even the home office), take 15 minutes to make your Most Important Tasks list for tomorrow. That way, when you arrive the next day, you will be able to start right away without wasting some of the most productive hours.
Do you think this isn’t possible? It is! If you have a zillion emails that haven’t even been opened, how about going rogue and deleting them all? Too scared to do that? That’s okay. Archive all of them instead. Then delete some each day (set a timer for 15 minutes) until they are deleted, acted upon or filed in the appropriate file in your email system.
Clear your workspace
A cluttered space makes for a cluttered mind. Scientifically proven. So before you start working on a project, take 15 minutes to clean the space you will be working in. This could be unloading and reloading the dishwasher, putting things on your desk where they belong or folding and putting away laundry. Having a clean area will make concentrating on the one task ahead easier.
Clean out your messiest drawer
Pick the one drawer that makes you curse every time you try to find something in it. Take everything out and wash down the inside. Go through each item and either replace it neatly in the drawer, put it in your donate box or pitch it in the trash.
Make appointments in a big batch
Depending on how many people are in your family, you may need to schedule this over a couple of days, but that’s okay. Go one by one and set up all appointments for the year for each family member. Don’t forget to add them to your calendar so you don’t forget about them later.
Have the same thing for dinner each night of the week. For example, Monday is spaghetti night, Tuesday is fried chicken, etc. Sit down as a family and come up with a list of 5 meals you could all enjoy each week for the next 3 months. On the weekends, when you have more time, you can go wild and have whatever. This one simple thing will free up a lot of brain energy that you can use for more important decisions.
Handle papers once
This includes mail, school papers and other paperwork that needs to be filled out. Don’t let the mail pile up. Immediately trash the junk mail and ads you don’t want and then deal with the important stuff right away so you don’t have them hanging over your head. Write that check, sign the field trip permission form, check the boxes and mail it back. File anything that is hanging around and get paperwork off your desk.
Make time for peace
Start your day, every day, in a calm, positive frame of mind. Do whatever it is that you enjoy, but don’t usually have time for, such as journaling, doing yoga, meditating or just reading a few pages of a book. Or, you may want to just sit quietly and sip your coffee while watching the birds at your bird feeder. Make this your time to reflect and treasure—no housework or checking email allowed.
Trash your junk drawer
Your goal is to minimize clutter, so you need to make a clean break from your junk drawer (you may even have more than one!). Get small, inexpensive containers to put small items like paper clips, rubber bands, nails, batteries, etc. in. Then organise your drawer for these utility items so that you can easily find what you need. If you have more paper clips than anyone will ever need, get rid of all but the best ones.
Clear off your computer desktop
You may use your desktop as a shortcut to access files you are currently using. That’s fine. But do you ever refile those after you are done with them? That’s what I thought. This makes it harder to find what you need, and it slows down your computer. Go to your desktop right now and spend 15 minutes deleting or refile everything that has built up that you no longer need to have handy.
Start a donate box
You will probably make several trips to drop off donations when you declutter your house, but it’s a good idea to keep one to add to as you get in the habit of getting rid of clutter. Actually, it gets easier and easier to add to that box or throw out items that have seen better days. When you come across a holey pair of socks, toss them in the trash or use them as dust rags. When you find a whiz-bang kitchen gadget that you’ve used only once, place it in the box. When the to donate box is full, take it to your favorite charity.
Simplify your budget
Even if you have a budget already, it’s likely complicated, and therefore, doesn’t get used as it should. There’s no need to use the Cadillac of budgeting programs or software when a simple spreadsheet will do. Set a timer and then make a new, simplified budget. You can simplify it further by having a catch all area for incidental expenses that don’t need to be purchased on a monthly basis, such as gifts and clothes, instead of listing it all out separately. Keeping it simple will make it easier to stick with.
Grab your phone and tablet and delete all of the apps you had to have, but that you never use. Yes, even if you paid for them. You can do this while you are watching TV or in a queue waiting. I bet you’ll never miss them, but if you do, just download them again and then use them.
Downsize your wallet
Ladies, you may want to do this with your handbag too. Go through your purse and get rid of all the old receipts, coupons and other bits of paper that you no longer need. Organise your money so all the notes are facing the same direction. Remove all the loyalty cards you’ve collected that every store now seems to have. Either keep them in a safe place or if you don’t use them often, just cut them up and get rid of them. Take all but one credit card and debit card out of your wallet and store them someplace safe.
Have one place for mail
If you are like many people, you don’t have a designated location for incoming mail. Even though by now you have hopefully made all your bills paperless, you probably still get important stuff in the snail mail sometimes. Have you ever missed a one-off payment or forgotten to renew your car registration plates because the mail was carelessly tossed somewhere? Choose one place where all mail goes and tell your family about it.
Unsubscribe from email lists
We have all signed up to email lists or newsletters that we no longer care about and never open. Go through and unsubscribe from all of them. When another one pops up in your inbox, as you know it will take the time right then to unsubscribe. This will make your email easier to zero out each day.
Streamline your wardrobe
Go through your wardrobe and take out anything you haven’t worn for 6 months. Or anything that doesn’t fit you right or that you don’t like the colour of or whatever. Put it all in your donate box. Done.
Which of these little simplification projects is calling to you right now? I challenge you to pick one and get it done over the course of a few days, then come back and tell me what you have achieved… I’ll be keeping you up to date with my progress too…
Mums in the Middle is a new community starting in September 2018 to help mums cope with the chaos and overwhelm in our lives.
We are going to support each other through decluttering, procrastination and finally getting our bits together, so that we can always get done what needs to be done, and yet still have some time for self care and pampering.
If this is something that you would like to be a part of please leave your name below. You will receive a few tasters of the group content as I am putting it together over the summer, starting with a free ebook called Simplify your Life, which is where I took these mini-challenges from. I hope you don’t mind if I pick your brains over the summer to discover what specific challenges you are facing and what you need help with the most – that way I can design the group to be exactly what you need
Then when I launch you will receive an extra -special joining offer for being one of my founder members as the group gets under way. And if you choose not to join us in September, then please keep the freebies and unsubscribe – there is no obligation to join if you don’t want to